Breaking Stereotypes: The Modern Mother's Contribution to Child Maintenance
- Piyadarshini Balakrishnan
- Mar 29
- 6 min read
Traditionally, the law and societal norms often cast fathers in the role of primary financial providers, especially when it comes to child support payments.
Under Section 93(1) of the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976, it is stated that the Court may order a father to pay maintenance for his children:
a. If the father has refused or neglected reasonably to provide for his child;
b. If the father has deserted his wife and the child is in her charge; c. During the pendency of any matrimonial proceedings; or d. When making or after the making of an order placing the child in the custody of any other person.
The provision that gives Courts the power to order a mother to pay or contribute towards the maintenance of her child is governed by Section 93(2) of the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976. However, the Court may only make such an order after it is satisfied that considering her means, it is reasonable to do so.
This section empowers mothers, especially working mothers to provide some form of financial assistance and reduce the burden of her husband to continue providing and supporting the needs of their children.

Q1: Who is responsible for providing child maintenance?
Both the mother and the father have the responsibility to provide for the children. Even though the father has the primary role to provide child maintenance, the Court may also order the mother to provide towards child maintenance if she has the financial means.
Q2: I am a housewife. Will my husband fully be responsible for child maintenance?
In the 90s and early 2000s, case laws have proven that a mother who is unemployed or a housewife does not contribute towards child maintenance as she has no source of income. The question hence remains; would the same principle apply today?
In a recent case in 2023 where the mother was unemployed and has no income, the Court ruled that the mother did not have to provide child maintenance as she was the main caregiver to her children as their father is absent from their lives. The Court only ordered the father to provide child maintenance in this case. The Court also recognised that the mother in this case is a hands-on mother who provides emotional support and a conducive and comfortable living environment for her children.
Now, differentiate the case above to another case in 2023 where the Court ordered the father of the child to provide child maintenance and if the mother believes that the amount of child maintenance provided by the father is insufficient, then it is her responsibility too to share in the financial responsibility of raising her child. The reason that the Court made such a judgment is because although the mother contended that she is unable to work due to illness, the Court believed that she was physically capable and fit to seek for employment to support herself and her child.
Based on both these recent cases, it can be seen that the Court does not order a mother with no source of income to contribute towards child maintenance. However, if the Court believes that the mother is purposely unemployed to rip the benefits of obtaining child maintenance, the Court may urge the mother to seek employment to sustain her child if the maintenance provided by her husband is insufficient to her.
Q3: I am a working mother. Does the amount of money I earn matter? How much of child maintenance do I have to contribute?
In deciding how much a working mother should contribute towards child maintenance, the Court will always look at the income generated by the mother. Based on the salary earned by the mother, the Court will then allocate a suitable amount as child maintenance. If the mother is financial capable of providing for her children
alongside supporting herself, the Court will then make an order for child maintenance that is suitable and not burdensome to the mother.
Q4: My husband and I have joint custody of our child. How much of child maintenance do I have to contribute?
In a case of joint custody, it is likely that the Courts would decide that the mother and father are equally financially responsible for their children. However, the amount contributed by each parent towards child maintenance may not necessarily be the same. The Court will take into account the amount of income of both parents before deciding on an amount for maintenance.
Q5: I do not want my husband to meet or have a relationship with my child. Does he have to contribute towards child maintenance?
It is unlikely that the Court would order the father to contribute towards child maintenance if he has been ousted from the life of his children. Such a scenario was brought upon the Court in 2022 where the mother had excluded the father from having any involvement in the child’s life. Since the father had be ousted, the mother was responsible of making decisions unilaterally regarding the child’s development without informing the father. Hence, the Court ruled that it is only fair that she should not expect any child maintenance from the father and she would be solely responsible for child maintenance.
Q5: How long does my spouse have to pay for child maintenance?
The duty to provide child maintenance would cease upon the child attaining the age of 18 years old or upon cessation of any disability or after the child has completed his or her further/ higher education or training. This would depend of whichever ends later. [Section 95 Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976].
For instance, if your child is already above the age of 18 but he or she is still pursuing her tertiary education at a university/college, you would still have to provide for child maintenance until the completion of the tertiary education.
Q6: How does the Court calculate child maintenance?
No specific guidelines have been provided by the Courts as to the method of calculation for child maintenance. However, the amount of maintenance that should be contributed by the parent is determined on a case to case basis. The Court will take into account various factors such as the the ability of the parents to generate an income, current and future income of the parents and if there would be any financial burden on the parents if they contribute towards child maintenance.
It is important to remember that when deciding how much each parent would contribute towards child maintenance, the Court will highly consider the amount of maintenance necessary for the child’s upbringing and the Court will not make an order that would end up causing hardship to the parents.
Q7: What happens if a parent who is supposed to pay for child maintenance stops paying?
It would considered as a contempt of Court order. The other party may make an application to the Court to enforce the child maintenance order against the parent who has refused to pay via several methods. Look at The Married Woman and Children (Enforcement of Maintenance Act) 1963.
Q8: What can I do if I am no longer able to pay child maintenance due to financial restrains?
If you are unable to cope with your monthly child maintenance payments due to financial restrains, you may apply for an application to vary the current child maintenance order.
In order to successfully vary the child maintenance order, you must be able to proof that:
i. The child maintenance order was based on a misrepresentation or;
ii. The child maintenance order was based on a mistake of fact or; iii. There have been any material changes in your circumstances. For instance, you had lost your job or you are unable to work due to health restrictions.
[Section 96 of the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976]
Based on the information above, it can be seen that there has indeed been a shift in the legal and societal recognition of parenting contributions beyond traditional stereotypes. By actively participating in both the financial and emotional aspects of child rearing, modern mothers are challenging outdated legal presumptions about parental roles. Mothers today play an equally important role as fathers in financially supporting their children. This new shift will ensure that child maintenance laws are truly reflective of the best interests of the child, recognizing the invaluable and varied contributions of all parents within the modern family structure.
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